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Paul Lynde

Jun. 13, 1927—Jan. 10, 1982

At a time when coming out was not a possibility, Paul Edward Lynde relied on a number of excuses which explained away his status as a "confirmed, lifelong bachelor." Often he just told fans his high school sweetheart had broken his heart, suggesting he was still too hurt to begin dating again. He served as Uncle Arthur on Bewitched, opposite Agnes Moorehead's Endora —a woman he referred to on more than one occasion as "one of the all-time Hollywood dykes". He made arguably homophobic statements in public, telling People magazine in 1976, "My following is straight. I'm so glad. Gay people killed Judy Garland—but they're not going to kill me."

Lynde himself is among the gayest celebrities the world has ever known. Chronically cranky, sarcastic and mincing, Lynde's career was also defined by his voice work as Templeton the rat in Charlotte's Web, and as the wisecracking centerpiece on television's Hollywood Squares. During his life he served as comedy writer, nightclub performer, Broadway actor and director, recording artist, and television pitchman. The man who made the world "a safer place for sissies," suffered a number of tragedies—including a constant battle to control his weight, his whisky, and his depression—which culminated in an isolated, mysterious death in 1982.

Born in Mount Vernon, Ohio, Paul Lynde was one of six children. Encouraged by his high school drama coach, he enrolled at Northwestern University's Speech and Drama School, where in 1948 he was declared Best Student Actor of the Year. His humor was very much inspired by the New Yorker cartoons conceived by Charles Addams. Upon graduation, he pursued an acting career in New York without much success. He survived for four years by waiting tables and selling blood for five dollars a pint. On Thanksgiving day in 1950, Paul won an amateur talent contest which led to his first New York nightclub gig. Other successful club dates followed, and soon he was cast in New Faces of 1952, a hit revue which led to comedy roles in the original stage (and later screen) production of Bye Bye Birdie.

Lynde's brother died in the Battle of the Bulge—one of the coldest, snowiest wars in history, and one of the worst battles in terms of losses to American forces in World War II. The process of recovering his body from the war field and bringing him back for a proper burial in the United States spanned five years, during which time the dead soldier was often mischaracterized as "missing in action". Rather than secure the closure which such recoveries provide, the recovery only opened new wounds. Paul's parents both died of stress and anxiety within weeks of each other.

In the wake of this grief, Lynde devoted all his energies to his career. From Bye Bye Birdie, he proceeded to get work on the Disney film Son of Flubber—the first in a series of character roles which would typecast Lynde as a snide, cynical little nelly. Although he wearied of this treatment and believed that someday he'd be accepted as a "legitimate" actor, his fan base grew exponentially upon witnessing his performance as persnickety Uncle Arthur in Bewitched.

In 1965, Lynde was vacationing in San Francisco with his 24-year-old companion Jim Davidson. As a prank, up in their hotel room Davidson made frantic flapping gestures as if to suggest he could jump from the balcony—and while doing so, he slipped and fell many stories to his death. Two police officers standing on the street below saw the whole thing. In a matter of seconds, they were comforting Lynde, who remembers: "They said, 'Don't worry, Paul, we saw it all. If you need us, we'll be here. We're not going to let them wipe you out with this.' They knew it looked strange: he was younger than I was, he was good-looking, and why was he there with me? Why did he jump? Why did he fall?"

After Bewitched was cancelled, Lynde was selected as a game show panelist. He didn't offer "dirty" answers on The Hollywood Squares, he delivered kinky, bitchy responses. He was a regular during its second week in 1966 and joined full time in the fall of 1968. Less than a decade later, he left the show after the National Enquirer claimed an "insider" revealed Lynde was fired because of his drinking problem. The source revealed documentation of Lynde's nastiness and implied that his alcoholism created a problem for costars. Even though these facts were common knowledge, Lynde sued the Enquirer for ten million dollars, chiefly to find out who the insider was. The case was summarily dismissed, but it ushered in a new era of tabloid litigation. Some of Lynde's famous quips during Hollywood Squares include:

Q: In the movies, Frankenstein's monster was always big and ugly. And he had lots of scars. What was his biggest fear?
A: That the girls would be turned off by his big nuts.

Q: According to the old song, "At night, when you're asleep, into your tent I'll creep." Who am I?
A: The scoutmaster.

Q. Do female frogs croak?
A: If you hold their little heads under water long enough.

Q: Paul, can you get an elephant drunk?
A: Yes, but he still won't go up to your apartment.

Q: Prometheus was tied to the top of a mountain by the gods because he had given something to man. What did he give us?
A: I don't know what you got, but I got a sports shirt.

Q: Is Billy Graham considered a good dresser?
A: No, but he's a terrific end table.

Q: Is using an electric vibrating machine a good way to lose weight?
A: That's what I told the saleslady, but she just winked.

Q: When is it a good idea to put your pantyhose in the microwave oven for two minutes?
A: When your house is surrounded by the police.

Q: Why do sheep sleep huddled up?
A: Because Little Boy Blue's a weirdo.

Q: When you pat a dog on its head he will usually wag his tail. What will a goose do?
A: Make him bark.

Q: What is the name of the instrument with the light on the end, that the doctor sticks in your ear?
A: Oh, a cigarette.

Q: It is considered in bad taste to discuss two subjects at nudist camps. One is politics. What is the other?
A: Tape measures.

Q: Paul, why do Hell's Angels wear leather?
A: Because chiffon wrinkles too easily.

Q: Paul, in ancient Rome, bakers were required by law to bake something into each loaf of bread. What?
A: A Christian.

Q: What is a pullet?
A: A little show of affection.

Q: According to the French Chef, Julia Child, how much is a pinch?
A: Just enough to turn her on.

Q: Who are more likely to be romantically responsive. Women under thirty or women over thirty?
A: I don't have a third choice?

Sadly, his best performances on Hollywood Squares were left on the cutting room floor: from time to time he was too drunk or too high on goofballs to read the ghost-written material. He forgot his lines, and when his hateful wisecracks were met with boos from the audience, Lynde would attempt to climb through the monkeybar set and engage in scuffles with the heckler—much to the consternation of those in the studio.

Nevertheless, the Hollywood Squares gig earned him twice as much money as his costars and got him a short-lived sitcom, The Paul Lynde Show. The series, dismissed by critics for its similarities to All in the Family, had a few novelties going: Lynde got to drink martinis on the show, and the set design was the first of its kind to feature an actual swimming pool.

Where it failed was believability. Lynde was too much of an ambling, shambling queen to play the role of an uptight attorney-slash-family-man. Script writer Ed Jurist noted that "all Lynde had to do was moan 'Oh, my knees' and he'd get a roar." The show was cancelled after one season, throwing Lynde's drinking problem into high gear. Supposedly he was the inspiration for a gag which made its way into the movie Groundhog Day. After a drunken high speed chase through the San Fernando Valley one night, Lynde crashed his car into a mailbox. When the cops rushed the scene with their guns drawn, Lynde lowered his window and ordered a cheeseburger with no onions and a large Sprite.

Between 1975 and 1979, Lynde had a number of television specials, none of which had names more exciting than The Paul Lynde Comedy Hour, The Paul Lynde Halloween Special, Paul Lynde: 'Twas The Night Before Christmas, or Paul Lynde Goes MA-A-A-AD. Guests included Levar Burton, Harry Morgan, Vicki Lawrence, Robert Urich, and the irrepressible Charo. An ad in TV Guide referred to one special as "a sensational, side-splitting salute to everything evil, mean, nasty and bad—as only Paul can do it." His characters included a salacious supermarket clerk, a temperamental guitar instructor with one arm, and a crossing guard.

One night in January of 1982, Paul missed a dinner appointment with a group of long-time friends. Concerned, they rushed to his home on North Palm Drive in Beverly Hills. He was found naked and dead, surrounded by amyl-nitrate poppers, an inhalant used primarily by gay men to enhance sex. His death was ruled a heart attack. Funeral services were held at Westwood Village Memorial Park in California, with interment at Amity Cemetery, Amity, Ohio. Lynde was survived by his sisters Grace and Helen, and his brothers Richard and Cordy.


13 Jun 1926 Paul Edward Lynde born, Mount Vernon OH.
Fall 1968 Becomes a regular on the Hollywood Squares.
1974 Zingers from Hollywood Squares.
29 Oct 1976 On the Paul Lynde Halloween Special... the rock band KISS. Hires David Letterman to write jokes.
1978 Paul Lynde arrested in Salt Lake City outside of a gay bar, which ended his career on The Donny and Marie Show.
1979 Comedy special Paul Lynde Goes MA-A-A-AD, billed as "a sesational, side-splitting salute to everything evil, mean, nasty and bad-- as only Paul can do it." With Charo!
1979 Sues the National Enquirer for $10M over claims that he was forced from his Hollywood Square over "drinking and nastiness."
11 Jan 1982 Paul Lynde dead of a heart attack. Naked. Holding a bottle of amyl nitrate (poppers.) Whatever boy he was having sex with that night had run off after Lynde's heart attack, not bothering to call 911.
24 Sep 1995 Radioactive Man episode 2F17 on The Simpsons features a Paul Lynde-alike as "The Scoutmaster." The voice is actually played by Hank Azaria.

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