Comments for OkTrends https://blog.okcupid.com The Official Blog of OkCupid.com Wed, 24 Sep 2014 13:49:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.6.3 Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by LOL https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-237002 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 13:49:54 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-237002 @miss stavros:

…and you my dear, will also have to learn that in cases like yours, there are several options in which to deal with your particular condition… such as lobotomies & executions since that’s the only reasonable & humane response to such wickedness & criminality.

BUT… if you do not wish to be prosecuted, processed & institutionalized since you are dangerous to yourself, others & society for being psychotically unlawful as well as just downright mean, you are perfectly free to go to some 3rd world banana dictatorship where insanely evil behavior such as yours is more commonplace… such as Syria, Somalia, Pakistan, etc.

…places like that are full of weirdo’s just identical to yourself that you will feel right at home with.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by StavrosGoldenDawn https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236989 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 02:32:28 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236989 The filth and evil of diversity was forced upon Whites, all over the western world by an evil, genocidal anti-White political elite! Non-Whites should thank their lucky stars that to this point we have even been tolerant of them. That tolerance is coming to an end and non-Whites need to get it through their thick skulls that we White human beings are under no obligation to find them attractive. And we are certainly under no obligation to marry, procreate with them and produce ugly mixed race offsrping!

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by LOL https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236988 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 01:30:39 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236988 @young miss wong:

dearest madam wong, you’ve clearly indicated that beneath your criminally psychopathy that you do not have two brain cells to rub together in which to start a brush fire. which would be a shame if it were not so laughably pathetic since it reveals your deep-seated racist hatred and unenlightened underdeveloped brain. yet this is understandable since it is prevalent in patients with profound brain damage & chemical imbalance.

until you find treatment to deal with your permanent debilitation, i suggest you stick with something you know, such as cleaning your toothbrush, and leave discussions to those who matter & are part of the human race.

good luck with your dumpster diving, and have fun explaining to the authorities what you did with the bodies.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by CC https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236987 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 00:58:10 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236987 The only suggestion I would add would be taking account socioeconomic factors. As for the results, it’s all about what you’ve been comfortable with. That relates to who/where/with what you grew up with. I grew up in Western PA and Western MD. Both very rural and very white. So not surprisingly, the girls I thought were cute were as well. I came to NYC, that changed (by HS, I was into all types of girls), and by law school I didn’t care but my preferences sharpened. The common thread in those situations was my familiarity determined my attraction.

I also noticed some things. In NYC, a supposed mecca of liberalism and tolerance, the idea of interracial dating was a notion you only saw on TV (it’s still a very segregated city). I now live in Michigan, and for the most part (esp once you get out of Detroit area), it’s not that big of a deal. Even in the “boonies”, people of different races hook up date and marry, not because they’re being “revolutionary” but because they share the same culture – familiarity.

My thing is that you associate with things that you are familiar with. It applies to everything. Any bias in hiring, renting/selling residences, school admissions, etc. comes back to that. It may suck because it screws entire populations that’s what laws are for. But just like poverty, and religious preference, you will never eradicate the preference for the familiar – something which is hard-wired into everyone. This should be no different when it comes to attraction, dating, and marriage and procreation, which (contrary to the thinking that is “en vogue”), are all related. You’ll have to live with that person for the rest of your life – he/she better be compatible.

I could “hook up” with a girl from any background, but there are those whom I will never date. I will never date a Jewish woman. Not because I hate Jews (my best friend is Jewish and he understands why I don’t), but experience has taught me that it’s not feasible to expect her to shun her family. The same goes for someone who’s Muslim, a Buddhist, atheist, Satanist, etc.. I would also never date someone who’s politically liberal – as she would be diametrically opposed to my worldview. I don’t date many African American women because while superficially I’m perfect on their eyes, in reality I’m not (culturally and politically – I’m a conservative Republican which most of them despise) Do those things make me bigoted? I guess but that’s my preference. Does a racial preference make someone racist? I guess. It doesn’t matter. Racism only matters when it prevents others from succeeding in moving up the social ladder. Last time I checked, being refused by a man/woman doesn’t count.

Also, this is America. We can all dream about how this country has changed but anyone who is surprised/bemoaning the image that the white male is the “standard” is deluding themselves. This is a society which was based on European standards with additional influences from all over the world. You can call a brick house a “chateau” but it’s still a house – made of bricks.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by DC https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236957 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 03:01:20 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236957 I mean, what can I say, speaking as an Ivy-educated Asian male, despite all our economic and educational success, it’s an embarrassment to our race and community. And it’s not any other race’s fault but our own, the Asians have willingly allowed themselves to be divided by the race-baiting western media, which denigrates all minorities (Hispanics are poor, illegal blue-collar workers, Blacks are violent hoodlums, Asians are effeminate nerds without social skills), while somehow also managing to pit all the minorities against each other in order to keep everyone under control. Although these racist views from the media are dictated by only a small number of influential old white men from “the good old days”, these biased views easily filter out into the general public, since people are forced into consuming the biased media. Frankly, I still find it astounding that since every year prior to 2014, Asian women actually rated white men higher than Asian men, and this year white men even rated Asian women higher than white women, while of course conversely white women rated Asian men negatively. Frankly, I am disgusted to be living in this country and will gladly move back to Asia at my earliest convenience. After all, you also want me to “go back to China”, don’t you? Well, good riddance, because I am dying to be rid of this mess of a country.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by StavrosGoldenDawn https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236954 Sun, 21 Sep 2014 06:06:40 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236954 Firstly, I must say that Whites who are financially well off and physically attractive are much much much less likely to engage in race mixing. Whites who are physically unattractive and who occupy the lower rungs of the socio-economic ladder are much much much more likely to engage in race-mixing. And, if you doubt that, go to your local Walmart and check out all the 250lb+ White heffers waddling down the aisles with their ugly, nappy-headed mixed race offspring in tow.

Race mixing is NOT natural, and beyond that it is evil and ugly beyond words. But going forward you will see that race mixing become much less frequent.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by Lessons Learned from Online Dating: We’re All Awful | BlindDating.co.uk https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236952 Sat, 20 Sep 2014 23:30:35 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236952 […] two pieces of research, one by the granddaddy of free dating sites OKCupid, and the other an independent experiment conducted […]

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by chantall https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236951 Sat, 20 Sep 2014 14:48:50 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236951 -_- i get alot of guys and im a black women…and from all races
If your hot your hot…silly study and im missing the point what is the meaning of this study anyway?

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by Asian Man https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236935 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 21:37:02 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236935 All I can say is, I’m surprised Asian men in the US still exist.

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Comment on Race and Attraction, 2009 – 2014 by Lessons Learned from Online Dating: We're All Awful — Sexy Lover Search https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/comment-page-4/#comment-236912 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 02:06:18 +0000 http://blog.okcupid.com/?p=12156#comment-236912 […] dual pieces of research, one by a granddaddy of giveaway dating sites OKCupid, and a other an eccentric experiment conducted by […]

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