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Title: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: lsdtrees on March 27, 2012, 12:06 am
I was in love with my best friend, and I met her when she was going out with this guy who had cheated on her in the past, so I never had a good impression of him.  Fast forward a year and they break up and we get really close.  We pretty much became boyfriend and girlfriend without the label but she kept saying how she still loved him (she's brutally honest).  I thought she would get over it but she never actually did.  Over spring break they got back together and it just crushed me.  He lives across the state and she had gone back to visit family and one thing must have led to another...

I didn't really get to have my say in the split, and when I took 2C-E on Saturday I said "fuck rolling over and letting this opportunity pass.  We had something special." So I poured my heart out to her and honestly felt like I had a chance but she's still hopelessly in love with this guy.  The worst part is that she really is my best friend and I can't even hate her for how she feels.

TL;DR Best friend I was in love with went back to her cheating ex.  What drugs (or lack of) can help someone make peace with life's curveballs?

Thanks SR
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: happyroller1234 on March 27, 2012, 12:20 am
I was just thinking about this.  I also have hit a rough patch, and want to get the fuck over it ASAP.
Weed and MXE are helping so far, but I'm open to suggestions.  :D
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: cerealbox on March 27, 2012, 12:30 am
Honestly, if you're not looking to forget, the best thing to allow you to experience the pain is sobriety. If you are looking to dull the pain, an SSRI might be useful. I'd turn to alcohol as my first instinct, but there's no way that's good for you psychologically.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: toker420 on March 27, 2012, 12:39 am
Cocaine, build an ego so big you don't need the other person anymore LMAO
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: funkynuts321 on March 27, 2012, 03:07 am
We've all been through this (or something similar) at one point or another. Shit man I went through this exact same thing 10 year ago however both of us were young and dumb and were together, fucked around, got back together, etc. Truth be told, if she is indeed your best friend you will never get over this and I do not mean that in a shitty or negative way--- the "best friend" to "girlfriend" line is a bitch to cross. Relationships are hard as fuck, especially in this day and age. We all want things to work and for a variety or reasons they do not. However I learned to take it as a learning experience and just move on with my life- eventually you will meet someone else and things will just click.

Personally during that time I stayed sober and I think that may be the best thing for you. If you are depressed about the whole thing which it sounds there is no need to throw fuel on the fire, just let this life lesson run it's course and be on the lookout bro. Pain itself can be a drug, at least it was for me.  Because of all the time you've spent confiding in this person, you may have missed some opportunities and who knows- the person you are looking for may be right in front of you.

Cheer up pimpin. It will get better.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: pennyloaferz on March 27, 2012, 03:17 am
I was in love with my best friend, and I met her when she was going out with this guy who had cheated on her in the past, so I never had a good impression of him.  Fast forward a year and they break up and we get really close.  We pretty much became boyfriend and girlfriend without the label but she kept saying how she still loved him (she's brutally honest).  I thought she would get over it but she never actually did.  Over spring break they got back together and it just crushed me.  He lives across the state and she had gone back to visit family and one thing must have led to another...

I didn't really get to have my say in the split, and when I took 2C-E on Saturday I said "fuck rolling over and letting this opportunity pass.  We had something special." So I poured my heart out to her and honestly felt like I had a chance but she's still hopelessly in love with this guy.  The worst part is that she really is my best friend and I can't even hate her for how she feels.

TL;DR Best friend I was in love with went back to her cheating ex.  What drugs (or lack of) can help someone make peace with life's curveballs?

Thanks SR
I had a shitty break up and some other unfortunate events recently- had a bad shroom experience and i started duing x a lot- but now that im off it I keep getting super depressed-  So far bud and a little coke seem to be the way to go- Im not fucking with pyschedelics for awhile : (
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: rise_against on March 27, 2012, 03:32 am
yeah, it sucks but you will get over it eventually.  if your like me it may take years. But you WILL get over it and find someone new. And then the new person will most likely fuck you over eventually as well.  So the question you really need to ask yourself is; do you want to put yourself in that situation again? 
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: ppass on March 27, 2012, 05:32 am
I had this same thing happen to me exactly. It sucked. Got through it with a little thing I call crack blunts.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: Gary Oak on March 27, 2012, 05:50 am
Drop 500µg of LSD and listen to 'Comfortably Numb' by Pink Floyd.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: palacefunker on March 27, 2012, 02:09 pm
Some of the best advice I've received regarding heartbreak to is fully-experience it as it is. All drugs on some level will tend to skew your mind away from natural reality. Get some exercise and let your natural chemicals balance out your emotions!

Once you're over him/her... then light one up and enjoy your new found freedom!!  ;D
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: dunk on March 27, 2012, 03:19 pm
You'll get over it eventually but what you need to experience is life, not any drug. Go out and continue living your life and you'll forget and move on hopefully from it and become a better person. Or you could dwell on it and let your jealously grow until the only thing you can do is kill the and everyone involved.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: boringflooring on March 27, 2012, 04:20 pm
Some of the best advice I've received regarding heartbreak to is fully-experience it as it is. All drugs on some level will tend to skew your mind away from natural reality. Get some exercise and let your natural chemicals balance out your emotions!

Once you're over him/her... then light one up and enjoy your new found freedom!!  ;D

This is what happened to me a few years back.  It took a long time to get over her.  I will tell you this though, it was such a rough experience that the few times i've been left by other women since then, it hasn't really phased me.  I don't know if that's good or bad though, but i've made out alright.

LSD had given me a good perspective on it when i was still hurting, but the next day when i was straight, everything went back to normal.  So the drugs might put a band-aid on it a few hours, but you're going to have to deal with it whether you want to or not.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: lsdtrees on March 27, 2012, 05:22 pm
Thanks for all of the suggestions- it is always nice having multiple perspectives on an issue.

On a side note I took methylone and 4-mec yesterday, and the experience felt very pleasurable to my mind and body.  I felt more in touch with the emotions I held and could communicate them very well. 
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: ImWekidSmawt on March 27, 2012, 08:13 pm
adopt a dog. download porn. problem solved.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: Rowsdower on March 27, 2012, 08:50 pm
I would recommend going out with a new ladyfriend (not necessarily a romantic interest but just a female friend) who you trust, take some LSD and MDMA together (candyflip) and bring benzos along for the comedown.  Go somewhere fun like a theme park or a zoo and listen to music together whilst tripping outdoors on a nice day, smoke joints outdoors and have some beers, discuss and philosophize about life.  I've done this after breakups and I don't really have any regrets in life despite having loved and lost in the past.

Am currently happily in a relationship that's soon lasted a year (long time for me) so I'm lucky not to be in your shoes, but the above suggestion would be my recommendation.  Just keep it cool and in moderation, know your brain's limits before candyflipping hardcore at 6 flags with a chick or whatever LOL.  It won't be a great experience for getting over a break up if you wind up being beaten by rent-a-cops and arrested for public intoxication.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: blackend646 on March 27, 2012, 08:57 pm
MDMA seems like a hit or miss to me. After rolling I either feel content or totally depressed.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: ianfleming on March 27, 2012, 09:14 pm
Using a drug to get over an emotional crisis is most likely going to cause you to build a dependance.
I would never suggest this.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: pennyloaferz on March 28, 2012, 02:42 am
Im starting to think DMT may be the answer I'm gonna try it to break this hump cause the xtc thing has failed horribly (unless im on it, then i feel like a little kid and have a fucking blast)- but I remember I first tried DMT after a buddy of mine passed away and i remember feeling very at peace with the world and relaxed after that, also at the time I had a kick ass relationship and was in a more stable environment than now  and then again a lot has happened since then and i never had problems with psycedelics before whereas now I can't touch shrooms or lsd- it would be too intense

any advice on DMT with shit situations
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: lsdtrees on March 28, 2012, 04:13 am
@ianfleming

I hear ya, I started a new years revolution for mj, and had not smoked the herbal medication up until a few weeks ago.  Previously I was smoking an ounce a month and was pretty addicted and have learned a lot of about my relationship to drugs these last few months.  Being sober for that long gives you perspective on the stoned state and why you seek it.  I suggest it to anyone not because I think it's healthy to take a break every once in a while, but it is a chance to get to know your mind and impulses on a deeper level.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: rise_against on March 30, 2012, 02:54 am
try doing some MXE.  helped me out quite a bit....  if Everything happens for a reason, maybe you deserve someone better and will find someone who is more caring.  I would also recommend reading a book called "Against Love" by Laura Kipnis. Will make you look at love and relationships in a new and therapeutic light.   After you start reading this book you'll begin to realize how much value western society puts on those stereotypical "movie" romances that don't really exist in the real world.  And may even turn you off to future relationships.  Relationships take a lot of work for them to succeed. The question you need to ask yourself is: If this person requires all these stipulations for your relationship to "work" is it really love?   Coupledom today is much different than it was centuries even decades ago. 
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: rise_against on March 30, 2012, 03:29 am
^ not true. i've tried this and unfortunately you'll find out that the new girl's anatomy may not be up to par or she doesnt get turned on like your last GF.    bad advice.
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: pennyloaferz on March 30, 2012, 09:24 am
I recommend sex as a drug to get over this.

Go out and try your luck with every chick you talk to that you could see yourself having sex with.

After you've had sex with ten of them, it should be easy to forget about this one.

haha I got down with 2 girls from my exs hs (1000 miles away) immediately after- did feel like a king after that
Title: Re: Drugs to get over a break up. Not to forget it, but to experience it and move on
Post by: lsdtrees on March 31, 2012, 01:52 am
try doing some MXE.  helped me out quite a bit....  if Everything happens for a reason, maybe you deserve someone better and will find someone who is more caring.  I would also recommend reading a book called "Against Love" by Laura Kipnis. Will make you look at love and relationships in a new and therapeutic light.   After you start reading this book you'll begin to realize how much value western society puts on those stereotypical "movie" romances that don't really exist in the real world.  And may even turn you off to future relationships.  Relationships take a lot of work for them to succeed. The question you need to ask yourself is: If this person requires all these stipulations for your relationship to "work" is it really love?   Coupledom today is much different than it was centuries even decades ago.

I'll check this book out, thanks!  I work at a library and I have MXE.   ;D