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Title: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: ELAV8 on March 23, 2013, 08:08 am
Hey Guys,

Ive had problems with picking up women and wondering if anyone has tips they could share? I have bought a few of the pickup women E-BOOKS on the main site but they dont really work or women dont like my receding hair line, one of the 2. Any advice or surefire ways to pickup other than shouting the gear all night..
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Taklamak4n on March 23, 2013, 08:45 am
Have you read Roosh V? He posts free quality stuff online, and his books aren't expensive either. http://www.rooshv.com
Nowadays he writes a lot about men's rights etc., but just browse a bit and you find the good stuff. He also has a forum, so you can get tons of info through that.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: SRSuperfly on March 25, 2013, 12:56 am
What type of women? Alcohol usually does the trick.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: jentyb on March 25, 2013, 12:59 am
go to youtube and type in simplepickup it's three guys that get girls and they show you how.. hella entertaining...
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: PeakinBrah on March 25, 2013, 01:08 am
1. Take pride in your appearance.
2. Be confident.
3. Remember that they are the inferior species.
4. Use your primal instincts. Do you think a Lion prances around getting the female a drink? No, he hops the fuck on that bitch :)


Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Icon on March 25, 2013, 01:18 am
   I've been getting into this stuff as well. From what I've been reading the older pick up material is really weird. I've been going to rsdnation.com. They have free videos and articles on their front page, makes sense to me, looks legit.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Surgurn on March 25, 2013, 01:22 am
A little psychology tip: Subtly imitating people makes them more confident in you.

Example: You're at a bar, and you're talking to a woman there, you see she rests her two knuckles on the edge of the bar constantly. Do this for a few seconds, stop, do it again longer, and repeat. It shows compatibility and common interests which usually leads to attraction.
It applies to everything. The way their eyebrows raise when they laugh, the way they pronounce, or deliver their sentences.

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. 
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Ubida on March 25, 2013, 01:23 am
www.reddit.com/r/seduction

go to 'top' posts all time. Those will be your best friends.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: laplace on March 25, 2013, 01:35 am
1. Be funny.
2. Be very funny.
3. Be honest.
4. Don't be an asshole.
5. Take a shower.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Ron Swanson on March 25, 2013, 01:35 am
stop reading ebooks written by egotistical wankers and talk to some women. don't attempt to mask desperation with misogyny as many do, it will not help. wear a hat?
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: evalina on March 25, 2013, 02:20 am
Coming from a woman...
The most attractive thing for me is when a guy knows he can be on his own/isn't trying to hard.
What I mean is-- don't keep talking to the same woman if she's not giving you the time of day- it isn't worth it.
When a guy attempts to have an actual conversation with me instead of staring at my tits or being obnoxious and overbearing; it's a breath of fresh air. Humor goes a long way-- as does charm. No, I don't mean smelling her hair and whispering that she smells good or "daaaamn gurrrrl, your ass looks fine in that dress". But a genuine compliment like "Blue is a good color for you" works really well. Mostly because it's only hinting at that you think she's beautiful rather than smashing her on the head with it.

If you want to know anything specific, let me know
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: PBnJelly on March 25, 2013, 03:02 am
Confidence is of utmost importance. If your going bald either shave your head which alot of women love or get implants. If your confidence is low because you havnt gotten laid in awhile your gonna need to start somewhere if its been awhile since ive been out ill go out to the bar and just go around saying hi and giving the look to girls i know are not in my leauge ( of a lesser leauge then myself) when you have several girls say hi back and smile your confidence will go up then I start going upto girls I would be interested in and with high energy I come up to them with an introduction of myself and or my wing man if im not alone a good wing man can be very important too but thats besides the point then just simple whats your name where you from whod you come here with what do you do, "so how do you not have a boyfriend" I like also for introductions I like "what did you say your name is?" in the form of a question it kinda throws them off and kinda forces them to anwser they might say I didnt say then i reply with are you about to? and smile if at this point they say no they are not interested and keep it moving. Its all pretty simple once you get into the flow
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: AbraxasRiseth on March 25, 2013, 07:53 am
Torrent all of David Deangelo's programs, really good advice from inner game stuff (getting the right mentality and attitude) to techniques, like things to talk about, ways to behave around women.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Mescstars on March 25, 2013, 08:07 am
speak to them first,  ask them out for coffee or lunch, because most women will not speak to a guy first unless their real sluts or you really catch their interest.  8)
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Bline on March 25, 2013, 08:12 am
Hey Guys,

Ive had problems with picking up women and wondering if anyone has tips they could share? I have bought a few of the pickup women E-BOOKS on the main site but they dont really work or women dont like my receding hair line, one of the 2. Any advice or surefire ways to pickup other than shouting the gear all night..

 If you treat woman like a robot by "insert pickup line=swoon" you will die alone.

Try to improve your sad excuse for a life first. Get some hair plugs, go to the gym, maybe get rid of your mantits and huge gut.  Self improvement works wonders.

Maybe find a hobby that will make you an interesting human being that is worth spending time with.

Do lots of drugs like mescaline, peyote LSD and shrooms to expand your mind...to really break the broken paradigms and fail that have gotten you to the point where you have to ask anonymous strangers on how to interact with members of the opposite sex of your own species. 

OR.... get a prostitute. Its the same thing since that's how you think of women anyway, but instead of spending time on pickup lines and drinks you can just buy her time. If you get tired of that, go back to option 1.

The key here, friend, is your goal. Is it temporary pussy or to become a person that is confident and interesting enough to attract the ladies. It's up to you. 
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Obnubilate on March 25, 2013, 08:38 am
The simplest way to "pick up" women is simply to not try.
Be assertive. That is all.
Simply do not try.

I'm not sure how many women I've managed to "get with" simply by not trying, and just going out and enjoying myself.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: l33tn355 on March 25, 2013, 08:45 am
Confidence, take charge, and make them laugh. If you're not exciting, they won't be interested in you.

Don't be afraid to push a situation into the next level. Girls in most cases want are thinking the same way you are, they just know they don't have to do anything because guys throw themselves at girls. So if you're not throwing yourself at the girl you're speaking with, someone else will, and that will be the one banging her while you're out in the cold. That doesn't mean be an arrogant idiot though, you have put your foot forward though.

An easy way to tell if a girl is interested in you is if shes rebounding your conversation. If shes just answering you and not progressing the conversation, move along, shes not interested.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: TideHat on March 25, 2013, 03:40 pm
BE CONFIDENT. Women like a man who is confident, not one who is sorry for every little mistake or everything they do.
ACT LIKE YOURSELF
SMELL GOOD
BE FUNNY
DONT TAKE IT TOO FAST
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Razorspyne on March 28, 2013, 10:02 pm
........ Lol, anyone up for point-to-point?

1. Take pride in your appearance.

Yes. :)

2. Be confident.

Yeah confidence helps. Still, if you're a dick and are just being confident with nothing else to back it up then it won't help you at all. :)

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3. Remember that they are the inferior species.

Can see why you attracted -K for that, sport ;) La la la ::)

4. Use your primal instincts. Do you think a Lion prances around getting the female a drink? No, he hops the fuck on that bitch :)

Yeah that's good advice up to a point. Point being that any time the advances are not returned and it still continues the guy actually lowers his chances of going home with her, but apart from that, it's fine. :) (Also can be seen as hassling and get you thrown out of the bar ;) )

A little psychology tip: Subtly imitating people makes them more confident in you.

Example: You're at a bar, and you're talking to a woman there, you see she rests her two knuckles on the edge of the bar constantly. Do this for a few seconds, stop, do it again longer, and repeat. It shows compatibility and common interests which usually leads to attraction.
It applies to everything. The way their eyebrows raise when they laugh, the way they pronounce, or deliver their sentences.

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Yep. It shows you MIGHT be on the same kind of wavelength, or at least similar. Won't work in a relationship but it will for one night. If it helps you go for it. :)

1. Be funny.
2. Be very funny.
3. Be honest.
4. Don't be an asshole.
5. Take a shower.

This ^^. (I lost my custom arrows and symbols! :( ) Simple, really. :) Also, when you go out, you need to shower, use antiperspirant (don't use deodorant, it reveals you as being.............. y o u n g.........., which might be a problem, there's a bit of a "young boy" thing about it, also it isn't very nice-smelling, also it doesn't stop you sweating, it just covers it up if you DO sweat) boys, rub some talc on you, clean your teeth, gel your hair if you like that kind of look (to appear more natural, simply apply 1-2 hours before leaving and use hot water to melt it off and dissipate, that will decrease hold but give it more of a natural, less slicked back look while at the same time giving hold).................... Jesus H. Christ................ I shouldn't have to write basic hygiene instructions out but you'd be amazed at how many guys don't do ANY of this. And they wonder why they don't get picked up. Also, if you have to pick up a woman instead of it happening the other way around, something is wrong. If this is the case, pay attention to hygiene and how you act in the club.

RE: funny. Depends on the type of girl, doesn't it. A great sense humor is......... great.......... ::) OTOH. You don't need to crack joke after joke after joke to pick her up. If you do, she's not worth it. :)

stop reading ebooks written by egotistical wankers and talk to some women. don't attempt to mask desperation with misogyny as many do, it will not help. wear a hat?

Yeah I can back this up: I don't read dating books but I have seen some spam from authors, and they are so far up themselves it's not funny. Like I said above, if you are just being confident with nothing else to back it up then it won't help you at all. :) But talk to women and not books, get some tips from them if stuck, but just go out. Work out if possible (like ACE ::) ) , if you do then you'll be confident. If you're confident, it will flow a bit more easy. How can you be expected to pick up if you are not feeling right about image? Just eats away at confidence levels. Leave the books for a bit, and do the above.

Coming from a woman...
The most attractive thing for me is when a guy knows he can be on his own/isn't trying to hard.

*Raz scribbles down Silk Road replies furiously in his notebook so he can make a dating book and publish it before anyone notices*

Lol, I've been saying this forever, lol. ::)

What I mean is-- don't keep talking to the same woman if she's not giving you the time of day- it isn't worth it.

Mmmm..... can also get you beaten up too. :P If you are seen to be hassling a girl that's a situation you DON'T want to be in, especially if the girl is pretty and there's a group of meat-heads trying to get in with a chance by taking you out of the picture in lieu of valiance or some shitty thing lol. Lol....."Excuse me miss, is this man bothering you?" ha ha ha, yeah, that NEVER works lol! Girls always see through that shit. I told you they were meatheads didn't I? But really, if she's not giving you the time of day move on.......... f u c k i n g  q u i c k l y ......... LOL!! :-*

When a guy attempts to have an actual conversation with me instead of staring at my tits or being obnoxious and overbearing; it's a breath of fresh air.

Then you'd probably like ME lol! I'm a TOTAL breath of fresh air!! I'm so rare!!! Give me a medal!!!! >:D

Humor goes a long way-- as does charm. No, I don't mean smelling her hair and whispering that she smells good or "daaaamn gurrrrl, your ass looks fine in that dress". But a genuine compliment like "Blue is a good color for you" works really well. Mostly because it's only hinting at that you think she's beautiful rather than smashing her on the head with it.

If you want to know anything specific, let me know

Here's a good tip as well: genuine compliment not compliment. The same idiot spammer begging me to buy his shitty book on dating recommended paying a compliment even if it was false. Like saying "I LOVE that sweater!" even though she stole it from a homeless man, guys, if you don't like it don;t say it. :(

Confidence is of utmost importance. If your going bald either shave your head which alot of women love or get implants. If your confidence is low because you havnt gotten laid in awhile your gonna need to start somewhere if its been awhile since ive been out ill go out to the bar and just go around saying hi and giving the look to girls i know are not in my leauge ( of a lesser leauge then myself) when you have several girls say hi back and smile your confidence will go up then I start going upto girls I would be interested in and with high energy I come up to them with an introduction of myself and or my wing man if im not alone a good wing man can be very important too but thats besides the point then just simple whats your name where you from whod you come here with what do you do, "so how do you not have a boyfriend" I like also for introductions I like "what did you say your name is?" in the form of a question it kinda throws them off and kinda forces them to anwser they might say I didnt say then i reply with are you about to? and smile if at this point they say no they are not interested and keep it moving. Its all pretty simple once you get into the flow

All of this good advice, apart from the "so how do you not have a boyfriend" bit, guys, that is a deal breaker, if you want to be rejected this is how it's done like a pro. ::) But the wing-man bit actually true, only, instead of wing-man, make it a wing-woman, it will improve your chances by maybe 50%. Yeah. You're fucking welcome. ;)


edit.................. im tired finish later.





Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: facebang on March 28, 2013, 11:47 pm
Lift with your knees, not your back. 

Seriously though, you have to stop making a huge deal about it and just start living your life.  You also may need to readjust your standards.  I spent a lot of time with high standards and low self-esteem, and this led to a lot of loneliness.  There is love out there in every person, and many are deserving of sharing that love.   I don't mean to say I 'lowered my standards', I simply broadened them.  The other person doesn't need to be a 10, they need to be cool as fuck.  If they are cool, they get more beautiful all the time.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: operatorplease on March 29, 2013, 12:57 am
Hey Guys,

Ive had problems with picking up women and wondering if anyone has tips they could share? I have bought a few of the pickup women E-BOOKS on the main site but they dont really work or women dont like my receding hair line, one of the 2. Any advice or surefire ways to pickup other than shouting the gear all night..

 If you treat woman like a robot by "insert pickup line=swoon" you will die alone.

Try to improve your sad excuse for a life first. Get some hair plugs, go to the gym, maybe get rid of your mantits and huge gut.  Self improvement works wonders.

Maybe find a hobby that will make you an interesting human being that is worth spending time with.

Do lots of drugs like mescaline, peyote LSD and shrooms to expand your mind...to really break the broken paradigms and fail that have gotten you to the point where you have to ask anonymous strangers on how to interact with members of the opposite sex of your own species. 

OR.... get a prostitute. Its the same thing since that's how you think of women anyway, but instead of spending time on pickup lines and drinks you can just buy her time. If you get tired of that, go back to option 1.

The key here, friend, is your goal. Is it temporary pussy or to become a person that is confident and interesting enough to attract the ladies. It's up to you.
bbbbingo
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: Ron Swanson on March 29, 2013, 01:17 am
Lift with your knees, not your back. 

Seriously though, you have to stop making a huge deal about it and just start living your life.  You also may need to readjust your standards.  I spent a lot of time with high standards and low self-esteem, and this led to a lot of loneliness.  There is love out there in every person, and many are deserving of sharing that love.   I don't mean to say I 'lowered my standards', I simply broadened them.  The other person doesn't need to be a 10, they need to be cool as fuck.  If they are cool, they get more beautiful all the time.
+1 i'm high that made me laugh about lifting. the rest is bang on too.
Title: Re: Picking up women *PLEASE SHARE TIPS*
Post by: rb3 on March 29, 2013, 02:59 am
Have you read Roosh V? He posts free quality stuff online, and his books aren't expensive either. http://www.rooshv.com
Awesome! Thanks for the link