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Discussion => Off topic => Topic started by: mollysbf on August 07, 2012, 02:26 pm
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So theres this dude I've been hanging with thats a little on the sketch side but only cuz hes one of those kids that used to do the hard stuff. I am a good judge of character and I can't believe he would do what I think might of happened. NEED HELP DECIDING NOW. My wife got up after we were done in bed to go to the bathroom and get water and I guess I passed out and woke up this morning to her alarm with her not there. 5 minutes later she comes up and said she had woke up in the spare bedroom where my "buddy" was sleeping. She had all her clothes on but that wasn't much at the time anyway. She can't remember shit she says and we have an AMAZING relationship so this is a huge thing and idk how to react. Wake him up with a gun? he's still asleep in the spare room. I don't wanna over do it but man I am reeling here.
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Do not wake him up with a gun, even if your intentions are moderate, you never know what might happen.
A cheating spouse will not want to be backed into a corner and confronted directly. Out of respect for the trust you should have for each other, try asking, "Is there something I should know?" instead of directly accusing your partner of cheating. This way, you open up the lines of honest communication instead of putting up a wall of accusation immediately. When your partner talks, really listen. Don't interrupt her, and be sure to understand what she's saying to you. Together, you may be able to figure out a solution to solve future miscommunications.
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