I know this will get downvoted to smithereens because it seems like every single question about Bailey Jay or whatever his name is does, but what's the deal with the pandering to the LGBT community? Bailey Jay and pink dildos have nothing to do with DNM activity. I feel like this subreddit is ran and moderated well, but it's such a clickbait thing to do to have a transvestite on the front page for months now, only to be joined by a giant pink dildo. Like, what the fuck is wrong with the mod team here? It's such immature shit that would be better suited for 4chan. I always thought of /r/dnm users as intelligent, mature, rational thinking drug users like myself. Not click/flamebaiting douchebags. Why not a picture of Alexander Shulgin or Albert Hoffman, two people who had a much more profound impact on drugs and drug culture than a transvestite? Get your shit together, /r/dnm, you fucks.
Awwww does it make you uncomfortable? Suck it up, lady. Just know that ignorant twats like you are a dying breed.
I never gave it a second thought because I'm comfortable with my sexuality, but since you brought it got me thinking.
She's actually a good "mascot" for DNMs. She's different and doesn't give a fuck. She's pretty cool if you spend the time to find out instead of judging. There are assholes like you who'll judge because they're afraid they might suck her off and like it. Then there's all the people who accept her for being her because she's she's only being who she wants to be.
Seriously though. Grow the fuck up.