Selective Scamming @ Dream Market?

I placed an order for 4+ grams of gear from a DM vendor I've used twice in the past with no problem. 8 days after it shipped it was still a no-show so I contacted the vendor who gave me the tracking number and told me it had "landed" 4 days earlier.

I tracked it, and it had been delivered (after bouncing around a few zip codes and being marked "undeliverable as addressed" at one point - but not to me. So ....

I called the USPS and they confirmed the delivery but they were legally prohibited from giving me anything more than a confirmation that the address on their record of delivery did NOT match my address, which I had given them. Anything more had to be obtained from the sender/vendor.

I sent him 3 (reespectful) messages asking to see a copy of my original order or anything else that verifies whether the mistake was mine when I placed the order, or his when he shipped it. I made it clear that I was prepared to pay for it f the fuk up was mine, but that I needed something in the way of proof. He didn't respond to any of these requests - all spaced a couple days apart - but since he'd logged on every day, there's no way he didn't see them.

After a week of this sh*t, I opened a dispute, and the next day mod assigned to the dispute left me a message saying the vendor had been consulted (or whatever the word was) and to 'release the escrow.' The vendor added a follow up to that supplying the same tracking number (which I'd told him a week before was useless) and said that the shipping label matched the order. Nothing else. (These details were stated clearly when i filled out the dispute, so I'm wondering if the Dream mods are even reading these things..)

I shot back that I'm not releasing the escrow on nothing more than the "word" of a meth dealer, any more than I would expect the meth dealer to do likewise on the word of a tweaker (who's not tweaking as much as whoever it was that got my order.)

I gave the mods my shipping info, tracking number, and tracking history along with the customer service # to the USPS - I think that should be enough confirmation that I'm not running a scam of any kind.

Am I being a dick here?


Comments


[3 Points] KnightsOfTheSun:

It's possible he got your address wrong, or you got gyped. I'd just try my best to order a smaller amount off him once more(or another vendor)

Sometimes they don't trust you enough to refund or re ship


[2 Points] stickykitty1:

Am I being a dick here?

I don't think so. Does the vendor have mostly positive feedback, any other people raising issues? If not, and it's possible you messed up your address (keep a text file of it and copy/paste future orders), then maybe let it go. It sucks and it sounds like you've done everything right, including posting here, but it's the DNM and there are shitty people and technology all around.


[2 Points] brzaz:

Dream is a fucked up place.

I had an order with Asius for 1500 dollars, never came...

Asius got the money but I didnt get an order. So I gave him bad feedback and then he harrasses me almost daily for 6 months. And when I ask Dream to make him stop they just banned me....

Maybe it was the combination of Asius and Kingscan problems.

Kingscan did the same thing, order autofinalized and I got nothing. Left bad feedback so Kingscan Doxxes me.

They made him change the feedback but still let him vend....

Thats fucked up...

Especially the fact that he has so much info on so many people.

Id say Dream is a bad choice if you ask me :) ........