I ordered a product 24 days ago from a vendor on bsm, it has yet to arrive and I am getting fed up with the bullshit excuse that I need to wait at least a month before he will refund me, I know its not coming at this point. My question is, how should I handle this, would starting up a dispute be the best option or should I contact him directly and ask for a full refund (he already stated he wont unless its been a month) Im tired of having my money sitting in escrow and my product nowhere to be found.
How would you proceed?
Probably file a dispute , if he's ripping you off you're not going to get anywhere with him anyways