So this is my first transaction through the DNM and I am not sure what is considered "normal". I am going to keep the vendor and product anonymous out of respect and that I don't believe he is pulling a fast one on me. I did research on who I was going to buy not based on quality/price but communication and shipping. Last Wednesday I paid over 300ish $$ for some stuff. I did do it FE but this vendor got mad fucking reviews on just how awesome he is and had so many positive reviews.
I ask him if he can ship Friday and he responded saying it was cool and to give him the address, so I paid and finalized the deal. Talked to my friends and come to find out its no big deal what day it arrived so I sent him a message Wednesday night giving him the info and saying to go ahead and ship it Thurs its no big deal.
No response Thurs. but its no biggie im not going to pester him, Friday night comes and I ask him if he could give me an update etc etc on whats going on. Well no message directly but on his update profile he said he ran into some issues with supply but was going to get things filled and rdy Sat...
Well Sunday came along and still no response, So i sent him another message just asking if he could reply, Monday came and I decided to send him one last message because it seems like it just doesn't matter if I message him or what.
So what should I do, I mean i feel like im about to just start annoying him and he won't respond... I even thought about messaging him on reddit just saying to plz respond on the market (but I really feel like this is totally crossing a line)... I just am really bummed out because every single review made it seem like he was beyond amazing with communication and super fast shipping and its been 6 days with no response and no shipped package. My friends and I were supposed to have a big bachelor party Sat and I told em about this shit and everyone was so pumped. :( now it just seems like it might not even happen.
PS... I have seen him log onto the site almost daily (except he hasnt logged on today).
You FE'd. And it sounds like you have no patience. Stop messaging him every single day, most vendors take the weekend off.