Why I think certain community members have too much power

I think that certain people who wield power here are evil and shouldn't even post here in dnms anymore and that is /u/vendor_BBMC.

He killed off prolific and old school SR1 member who was helpful to many /u/Uncle_Unicorn and he bullied her out of here and she has gone for six months now because of him.

He purposely killed off and bullied one of our very good and helpful dnm friends and he didn't care at all.

She was a recovering heroin addict from the UK who had been here since SR1 and talked repeatedly about how she came here to talk among like-minded friends as she grappled with grasping the nettle that is recovery but also among the laughs and banter she mainly spent her time dishing out help and advice to fellow recovering addicts.

She didn't have a lot of money but wrote to the SR1 mods like SSBD when they were in prison and sent them books and wrote them because she was a good community member but instead he accused her of being a Fed called Cirrus (who was a man called Jared) when he heard she had done this.

She was petrified of BMMC. Because she worried he would hurt her friends on here she left and she told me this. And even though her friends tried hard to help her to stay and made threads against BBMC she didn't want them to because she knew he would bully them like he did to her.

That's why she deleted her account.

BBMC couldn't see that because she was honest and a straight talker who called him out for what he was and because he wasn't man enough to take that he wouldn't rest until he bullied her to the point where she has now gone.

She has been gone for over six months or more and now her account is deleted because he kept insisting to all who would listen that she was a big dnm vendor from America and she was worried that LEO might believe his crazy claims. A recovering heroin addict needs no stress - let alone the worry that she or her friends might get into trouble with the police when they have done nothing wrong.

And, BBMC caused all of this. She cried a lot to me before she left the sub last december and said repeatedly that this sub was her only "lifeline" to the "outside world" - and what she meant by that was the community that had once inspired and assured her that being a drug addict wasn't shameful. Here was her touchstone to a world she had never known until BBMC started bullying her.

I know all of this because we talked in PMs after meeting on SR1 and because she helped me for 19 months with advice on how to withdraw from benzos and methadone so thanks for that BBMC - you cunt.

My boyfriend and I have no way of contacting her now. I hope she reads this but last time we spoke she told me she wanted a total break from the dnms because "the community wasn't the same."

You are an enemy of us all BBMC... and lots of people here can testify to this (if they're even still here) - you're a bully and even bully the mods to the point where they are scared to challenge you because they're not even paid to do this job. You're the reason so many have left.

Your temper always doxes you.


Comments


[15 Points] None:

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[12 Points] alfabi:

"Vendor" complaint flair.
Lol


[7 Points] Lucid_Enemy:

U_U relapsed and was open with her relapse.... I think she realized she can't be in recovery and be around a bunch of druggies BBMC had nothing to do with her relapse... Take everything BBMC says with a grain of salt usually it's educated estimates of future events (although recently it has been way less educated) sure he posts alot of crap but let's face it if this place was 100% business no one would keep coming back in today's society we need drama entertainment.... Think about it you have it in your life (at work, at your bookclub, your internet clan,this place) you posting this is just that storing up drama about people steering up drama.... Just sit back and enjoy the barbaric government we have here on /r/DNM after all the whole ideaology of this was a kind of anarchical government style invented by sir. Ross Albrecht


[7 Points] stilldogman:

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[6 Points] Bawsyrn:

Maybe I just have thick skin, but I can't imagine getting bullied off of Reddit by a nonsensical anonymous tweaker.. Make sure she stays off of Xbox live or she's in for a real hurt.


[5 Points] None:

I've done my fair share of SE. You reference "her" too much for someone who only got this information given to them by the source. Seems like you had beef with BBMC and now you're trying to get back at him for... I guess the sake of beefing? You also mentioned twice that she told you this information... There's no reasonable point to that if somebody was giving their testimony. Seems like a lot of information a drug addict and DNM user would give out to someone.

Get your tinfoil hats ladies and gentlemen, this isn't too hard to guess that this is /u/Uncle_Unicorn...

But judge how you will.

I've never dealt with /u/vendor_BBMC but I have only heard good things and if it came down too it I'd choose him over a random marketplace vendor.


[5 Points] underdosedwtf:

Too long, didn't read. But:

He killed off [...] /u/Uncle_Unicorn and he bullied her out

If you get 'bullied out' by random jerks on the internet, you better stay off it. There's jerks, there's drug dealers, and there's 10 year old kids that fuck your mom constantly. If you're sensitive to that shit you better play with toys IRL.


[4 Points] None:

dude anybody with half a brain wouldn't take BBMC seriously.

I really could care less if he does indeed produce (or at one time produced) the most potent meth in the universe. Nobody gives a fuck. He often sounds like (and maybe likely is, based on his behavior that I've observed) just a stupid fucking junkie tweaker. He never contributes anything useful or insightful. It's generally just stimulant driven snarkiness and what he probably assumes to be wit (? for lack of a better word).

He's a narcissistic, egotistical fuckwit. He is likely just the asinine internet persona of some fuckin' methead. Nobody should take him seriously. After all, IT'S THE FUCKING INTERNET. Who cares who "Vendor_BBMC" is? He's just another fuckwit in the endless sea of fuckwits eating away at this sub like fuckin' nutsack cancer, fellas. (and gals)


[4 Points] toesknowz:

I am awaiting BBMC to reveal my secret identity. I think I might be TGUK. Or maybe I'm Mr. Nucelus. I could even be Satoshi. I'll just have to wait until he decides to clue me in on who I really am.


[4 Points] Anti-Hero_AU:

/u/uncle_unicorn wrote:

Ha. Replying to BBMC whiled away many a rainy afternoon when I was bored. But once I realised it was like talking to a brick wall or attempting to push a jelly up a hill I gave up.

/u/Vendor_BBMC is like that time when my grandpa went senile and we kept telling him shit about how things really were and insisting that we were only doing it out of love, but despite all that he refused to listen to sense and kept forgetting where he had parked his car and saying things like his long-since dead mother was still alive and, in fact, he had spent the afternoon shopping for post-war bargains with her - even though we told him repeatedly that she had died in '73.

And, despite our valiant attempts, he eventually trundled off into his own little twilight world 24/7 and nurses fed him mashed carrots, wiped drool off his chin or changed his adult diapers while he stared off into the middle distance and discussed the price of eggs and the pros and cons of WWII with a gang of dead relatives that he was hallucinating were having a tea party in his room at the nursing home.

BBMC is like that. Let him have his fantasy that he's a dnm drug dealer that sells meth and heads up some massively powerful DNM drug consortium called the British Brotherhood of Mirth Dealers - it's the only thing that gives him joy when he logs on to the twilight home he lives in now's wifi in between waiting for his daily shots of Tramadol and Temazepam.

Edit to add:

:-(

uncle_unicorn comments on BBMC sell some shit or shut the fuck up - May 02, 2016


/u/uncle_unicorn has also deleted her reddit account in the last ~2 days... :(

BTW, RedBook thinks, dead set, that I am /u/NSWGreat in disguise also, and he has sophistic-ally unmasked my true identity and told me the feds have all my shit and are coming for me... :/

Just don't let him blow smoke up your ass and he's rather harmless (except for when n00bs read his posts and start believing)...


[1 Points] lovelylittlegangster:

How to deal with bullys on the interwebz: ignore.

You don't need to justify your actions to them. Just ignore them and they'll go get attention in some other way.

It really is that simple.


[3 Points] IAmDrugsTho:

After reading that entire post: What the fuck? Nice.


[3 Points] boofk:

Maybe a recovering heroin addict shouldn't be on a drug msg board? Just a thought from a fellow heroin addict.


[3 Points] deliciousbuttermmm:

Plot twist: this thread and most replies are all by /u/Vendor_BBMC


[2 Points] xenomorph_Larvae:

christ this is pathetic. take some fucking responsibility for your actions, people. maybe BBMC was a dick to unicorn, but it's not like unicorn was a saint, either. BBMC wasnt the one posted multiple threads singlging out unicorn, in fact I dont think he posted a single thread singling out unicorn, ever. unicorn can't say the same. for a solid few months, the bulk of her posts were BBMC-centric. even if the discussion had nothing to do with BBMC, she made sure it did. if you felt someone was bullying you online, seems like you'd want to stay off their radar. not add them on social media and start talking shit in a place where you know they will see it.

this thread smells real fishy. posted by a year old account who's post history begins 10 hours ago...with a post about BBMC. I remember catching unicorn in a lie, and she admitted to making multiple reddit accounts. said that she squats names she likes, so that nobody else can snatch em up. also admitted to burning accounts somewhat regularly, and to being someone else prior to being unicorn. so if you met her on SR1, you didn't meet her as unicorn. meaning you chatted with someone else at first, via a medium other than reddit PMs. yet now you lost contact cause she deleted her reddit account? she has another one called /u/_Leif_ or something like that, maybe they can chime in here.

anyway, coincidentally, posts by /u/thecatinthetwats begin immediately following unicorn's account being deleted, making it conveniently difficult to verify anything stated in the OP. not to mention, unicorn's been inactive for awhile now, I'm impressed you were able to pick up on the account deletion so quickly.

if I didn't know any better, I'd guess this thread is a very subtle dig on BBMC. or maybe it's just 'taking the piss', like the other thread from way back when


[3 Points] s7iu:

I hope you guys remember that BBMC likes to start arguments with himself between multiple different accounts


[2 Points] at69:

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[2 Points] None:

Oh man the drama surrounding this god damned sub is UNPARALLELED.


[2 Points] Lucyintehsky:

Not to many worry about him anymore as you can see in threads, most people have started to recognize that he is full of shit. Just watch when he tries to get all techy with anything he thinks he knows something about.

And you are a pussy for having these kind of feelings on the internet, go do something else.


[2 Points] None:

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[2 Points] abrakazan:

ITT: words hurt


[2 Points] None:

BBMC needs Reddit more than Reddit needs BBMC,i always get the impression he thinks everybody is sat around awaiting his next post or video. BBMC = Quantik wannabe. But he has never been anywhere near that. We only acknowledge him for the videos and thats only because its a dumb thing to do,again something Quantic did. And lets face it,even the best Meth is still just METH! If BBMC is an older guy ie 30 + then i pity him more because he carries on like some angst ridden teen trying to shock mummy with loud rap music lol! Like Meths cool or some shit,wannabe rock star!


[1 Points] None:

Kids, this is why you don't do meth. It will turn you into a pock marked owl murderer. Meth is bad, mkay?


[1 Points] papayabananatree:

Surfing this shit high for the first time, I'm empathetic as fuck but also feel that paranoia. This sub makes so much more sense when you're not sober


[1 Points] TripAddict:

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[1 Points] Dontcarepayme:

I really hope she's doing ok. But come on, she can ignore BBMC and his tweaky behavior by blocking him. Guy is a joke.


[1 Points] DMVbandz:

Lol it's fucking Reddit. I mean sure words can hurt sometimes but if you take a tweaked out meth head seriously and let him get to you that's your problem. Sucks she quit tho but BBMC is entertaining af and you probably shouldn't take his ranting seriously.


[1 Points] None:

Shaddap you internet crybaby. Holy crap look at all that shit you wrote. Go buy some drugs.


[1 Points] Vendor_BBMC:

Ohhhhhh. Boo hoo hoo. TERRIFIED of me? Are you joking?

If she hadn't just deleted all evidence, you'd see she was attacking me as late as yesterday. Remember the "open letter to BBMC"?

I suppose she was pre-emptively trolling out of fear, was she? Fear of what? I don't have powers of arrest. I'm responsible for my own words and actions, just like all of us. I know heroin addicts who are good people, drugs are no excuse for the way she carried on.

This kinda reminds me of it. I didn't bother her, and I'm not bothering you, whoever you are. I'm not a moderator and my font is the same size as anybody else's.

She's not dead. She's just left her username like a burned out car that she crashed too many times, and she'll be attacking me again at any moment.

Nobody burns a good name. She said a hundred bad words to me than I said back. She had a male username for a reason, to the best of my knowledge there was only one female mod on the Silk Road forums.

Ross was rumored to be talking to her when his laptop was grabbed by the cops. If she wanted to keep a low profile, she should have kept a low profile.

Now she's deleted herself like her best friend umbreon. Good riddance to both of them - I wish. But they only pretend to leave.


[1 Points] Vendor_BBMC:

Fortunately, I saved the thread in which uncle_uncorn last commented on me. Let's remember her for her gentle words yesterday:-

"uncle_unicorn[F] 1 point 23 hours ago

Looking in enviously at the REAL VENDORS

Lmao Octo. <3 Don't say he's not a real vendor he'll be seething for weeks and plotting innarnet revenge on you by spinning up some crazy conspiracy theory that you're Variety Jones, Gypsy Nirvana, Ross Ulbricht, Top Gear UK, Lobali and Preet Bahara all rolled into one.

However, as we know full well, Redbollock is correct in saying that he isn't a real vendor and, he's certainly not a manufacturer of anything but bullshit and meth-fuelled fantasies but in all honesty I'm quite glad about that fact.

IF he was anyone of interest the British police would have arrested him yonks ago - his OpSec is about as tight as Madonna's battered old granny valley.

No real class A drug manufacturers have time to create a YouTube channel, let alone the inclination, as obviously posting videos of yourself smoking drugs online and begging for attention in the way that he does is a simply terrible idea if you want to stay out of one of Her Majesty's prisons.

Luckily for Redbitch he just sits on here all day and night posting shite in a bid to impress teenagers - who are young enough to be his grandchildren - while smoking his home made batches of shake 'n' bake meth that he made in the bath of his council flat using an old repurposed fire extinguisher (I kid you not).

I have to say though that for all my mockery of him over the past year I'm very thankful that the police haven't even bothered arresting him (like they did PlutoPete and co). No man, or woman, should end up having their freedom taken away because of a few mind-bending substances.

This sub would be as dull as dishwater without Redbutt rabbiting on and, for all my weariness of the dnms, his posts are still worth a quick skim and a chuckle once every few months.

Bless him. I will watch his YouTube vid if I'm achingly bored later on today. (Although I probably won't be arsed)."


Poor gentle petal. Ignore the "Redbolllock" and "Redbitch" comments, she didn't mean them harshly. Its just this thing we had. She's such a joker, but the fear of "Redbutt" comes over in every gentle word.

I'm so sorry. my one-horned angel. Some souls are just too fragile for this world. No pain where you are now....


[1 Points] BudgetBuyer:

Guys if you keep this slap fight going on in here I'm going to report this whole thread to the government Cyber-Bullying database, where you'll all be flagged as emotional terrorists.


[1 Points] catnup:

Internet romances are real these days.


[0 Points] None:

Well fuck him for that! Asshole. That said anyone reading this never take him serious as you see it is not worth it. Hope you find her and she is doing excellent.

Fuck you BBMC. Your madness is getting creep. Leave people the fuck alone.