I ordered from HoS 24 hours ago. It's still pending. I tried searching on reddit and found that. It should change to "open" when the vendor accepted it. How long does it normally take HoS to confirm it?
And I FE'd it because shes trusted. I know shes busy but should I send a message to her asking if she got it?
Relax. It'll get changed when it gets changed. Messaging this early only slows everyone else's orders because the vendor has to reassure you.