What should I do about this situation with my vendor.

So this is my first transaction through the DNM and I am not sure what is considered "normal". I am going to keep the vendor and product anonymous out of respect and that I don't believe he is pulling a fast one on me. I did research on who I was going to buy not based on quality/price but communication and shipping. Last Wednesday I paid over 300ish $$ for some stuff. I did do it FE but this vendor got mad fucking reviews on just how awesome he is and had so many positive reviews.

I ask him if he can ship Friday and he responded saying it was cool and to give him the address, so I paid and finalized the deal. Talked to my friends and come to find out its no big deal what day it arrived so I sent him a message Wednesday night giving him the info and saying to go ahead and ship it Thurs its no big deal.

No response Thurs. but its no biggie im not going to pester him, Friday night comes and I ask him if he could give me an update etc etc on whats going on. Well no message directly but on his update profile he said he ran into some issues with supply but was going to get things filled and rdy Sat...

Well Sunday came along and still no response, So i sent him another message just asking if he could reply, Monday came and I decided to send him one last message because it seems like it just doesn't matter if I message him or what.

So what should I do, I mean i feel like im about to just start annoying him and he won't respond... I even thought about messaging him on reddit just saying to plz respond on the market (but I really feel like this is totally crossing a line)... I just am really bummed out because every single review made it seem like he was beyond amazing with communication and super fast shipping and its been 6 days with no response and no shipped package. My friends and I were supposed to have a big bachelor party Sat and I told em about this shit and everyone was so pumped. :( now it just seems like it might not even happen.

PS... I have seen him log onto the site almost daily (except he hasnt logged on today).


Comments


[7 Points] whothehoe:

You FE'd. And it sounds like you have no patience. Stop messaging him every single day, most vendors take the weekend off.


[2 Points] CHomfLok:

Did you PGP encrypt your address? If not, he may have dropped you like a bad habit.

also, depending on which market, some have regular private messages, AND PMs on the "order" page. Make sure he's not replying to you there.


[1 Points] CHomfLok:

I dunno. It's a bit early, TBH. I'd give it atleast until tonight, then tomorrow let him have it. Technically, the vendor has about 14 days to get the product to you before the order finalizes. So you can't really break out the pitchforks just yet. You can be irked about the communcation. If you haven't heard from him by tomorrow morning, you might try to get an order in to another vendor to get your stuff in by Saturday. That's really your only option at this point.


[1 Points] iamjustsomejerk:

Your first mistake was spending so much with a vendor on your first go around. Always order smaller samples first to check a vendor's quality, shipping time, stealth, etc... What if his stuff happens to be shit quality or his stealth is horrible? Those are things you want to know. Your second mistake was FE'ing for him when this is your first deal, both with him and on the market in general. He has absolutely no incentive now to even send you anything because he's already got his money, and you can't open a dispute if you never get your product or if what you get is bunk. Until he decides to respond, or if you find that it magically shows up in your mailbox one day, you can consider your money lost.


[1 Points] dastampmasta:

wow terrible vendor. issues with supply means he didnt even have the product. hes the kind of vendor sites like ebay and amazon do NOT allow b ecause they cant keep up with orders. they are taking orderswith no product in hand i.e uisn your money to flip the drugs.

FEing as you probably realized is a bad choice. just becuase a vendor has good feedback is no reason to FE. There is literally no point. It takes away from incentive to handle your order properly.