I hesitate to ask... kids?

I am probably going to mark myself as the most selfish dick on the planet, but how many DNM'ers have children?

I've got three. My drug use is light, consisting of very occassional powder and more frequent green.

I never bring it home with me. I have a good job. Treat my wife like a princess...

I've just always sort of accepted internally that life is about experiences, and drugs are a way to better experience life. One of my happiest memories was playing with my son while on some very pure Molly.

So am I an asshole? Am I just being a complete dick by even fucking with DNM? Are there any other parents out there?

Can't be the only one.


Comments


[170 Points] radben:

So, so glad this post isn't about buying kids on dnms.


[28 Points] thewilloftheuniverse:

I was hoping this was going to be about buying kids on the black market.

I mean, I don't want to have sex with them, I just want to eat them.


[29 Points] mrindio:

A better question would be. How many of you are still children?


[27 Points] GeneralStarkk:

There's nothing wrong with having a family and responsibly using drugs. I'd feel much better if a family man went through DNMs, better then some sketchy dealer


[8 Points] skarbowski:

You're not alone.

Responsibility is key.


[5 Points] BBQCopter:

Unless you are like Bob Saget sucking dick for coke, then you are probably doing ok.


[3 Points] galaxyandspace:

For sure there are! However, remember that the majority of those that are on the darknet are 16-25 years of age. Most aren't going to have kids... So you are not in the majority... Yet ;)

> playing with my son while on some very pure molly.

IMHO, that sounds beyond awesome! I think experiences like that are what God made Molly for...

Edit: I should probably answer the damn question: no I don't have kids, and using the DNMs does not make you a bad dad...


[3 Points] trancephorm:

you're perfectly normal and you're not the only one.


[4 Points] dopelessfopefiend:

One of my happiest memories was playing with my son while on some very pure Molly.

Being on mdma around your loved ones is the best thing.

Of course I don't fault you for it :)


[4 Points] None:

Man do you and just be responsible. It doesn't make you a bad person unless you put your kids in danger.


[3 Points] None:

For a second I thought someone was asking which market had listings......

....and I was like ya fuck ya! I'll buy a few. Fuck yard work! Now, how old would they have to be to operate the John Deere........

My hopes dashed once again.


[3 Points] None:

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[3 Points] JennieWon:

Consider a special naked night with your wife, both taking MDMA.

Consider a special naked night with both taking 2C-B. Make sure you are both in a place where you can blast the music and be wild and rowdy (speaking from experience). Shulgin said, "If there is anything ever found to be an effective aphrodisiac, it will probably be patterned after 2C-B in structure."


[2 Points] StickyNiki:

My parents smoked plenty of weed and raised two awesome, competent emotionally healthy kids. They kept the household clean and functional, held down good jobs, and put high standards on us through school. I don't know the whole story, but I'm pretty sure they dabbled in coke and meth when traveling and seeing rock concerts with their friends. When I was a teenager, I smoked lots of weed with my mom, and we were best friends. I wouldn't change any of it. There's nothing wrong with being a parent that does drugs. Just keep your shit together (duh.)


[2 Points] ImGonnaKickTomorrow:

I have three myself and a good career. I thought I had to give up my hobby permanently because I don't want to associate with sketchy ass drug world people. Now I don't have to. I am the proud parent of three amazing kids, all great people and straight A students. They would shit if they knew...


[1 Points] UndefinedExperience:

No you are fine. Considering the fact that if you do this DNM thing right you have virtually nothing to worry about. I would say you are not a bad parent. I have a son, I have a job, I use DNM's...Doesn't mean I am a bad dad.


[1 Points] OneEarthOnePeople:

I have no children on my own. And I respect you for being able to balance your family and recreational use of drugs, I can't even seem to balance the latter alone. But when I will have children, and if I will be as committed as I think I will be right now, the risk would be to large for me. I would even find it safer to buy the drugs IRL, as paradox as it sounds..I would hesitate man, I know I would.


[1 Points] SgtFaecesProcessor:

I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If anything I'd personally go further; if my future kids ever express any interest in drugs I'd rather introduce them to it in a safe, controlled environment than with their peers who haven't a clue what they're doing and getting it from sketchy street dealers.


[1 Points] OneEarthOnePeople:

Also, how have you been handling the negative sides of drug use (If you have experienced them at all) like the natural side-effects of molly (I am a drug noob, but to my knowledge, it really drains you and makes you kinda "numb" the next morning), or irritability in the absence of drugs (Again, if you have experienced this at all. Not implying you have)


[1 Points] RobRobRobRobRobRob:

I always ask this question and IMO if you're responsible and it in no way affects your career or support of your family then you're doing great and better than a lot of people.


[1 Points] Thameswater:

Son due in 4 weeks. Have bipolar disorder. Cocktail of pharma stuff works 5% introduces 10 more, worse side effects. Indica for when I'm hypomanic and sativa when depressed along with monitoring my moods, diet, physical activity etc works much better. Not 100%, but much much better than whatever the hell was in what I was taking before. Last time I got stoned was February with a friend, time after that November after a concert. Usually a couple of puffs 2-3 times a day, a blunt will last me up to 3 days depending on how bad I am


[1 Points] justForTony:

Just cuz your a dad doesn't mean you shouldnt get to have fun.


[1 Points] nmanjee:

We would get along great. I have one LO, light powder, normally green. But I rock it with a good career. Usually keep it at the office or out of town on work.


[1 Points] bafflesaurus:

If you're going to blame anything blame the system that keeps you from having the experiences you want. As long as you don't get thrown in jail and your kids are none the wiser you aren't hurting anyone.


[1 Points] u-void:

The only reason to label drugs as "bad" as a whole and not a case-by-case basis, is because the government has the opinion that they should be illegal.

No, you're not a bad person for disagreeing with the government's opinion.


[1 Points] joustingthesky:

Yep, I have kids as well. As everyone else has said, as long as it doesn't effect your ability to raise your kids and your family life, it's not an issue.


[1 Points] JennieWon:

There are cultures where even children partake peyote and ayahuasca.

And this is not the greatest example as it is a bit removed from DNM but check out this video testimonial from a mother who took MDMA to cure PTSD in a maps.org study:

http://reset.me/podcast/mother-describes-mdma-experience-feels-like/


[1 Points] polvb:

Don't feel bad at all. Things such as LSD, MDMA, and marijuana should be legal. Look up the side effects, then compare it to such things as alcohol and cigarettes. Only the ignorant and uneducated are against these drugs. These are the same people who think you're a bad person, while they drink to solve THEIR problems.


[1 Points] Sentazar:

Dude there exists a thing called responsible drug use jus consider 1 thing. "Am i in a state of mind to respond to an emergency if my kid needs me" you're more likely to answer yes to that with weed than alchy.

Just be responsible, love your kid, guide them, dont hinder them and enjoy your life.

They just trained us to think drugs are bad from a young age that's where the guilt is coming from


[1 Points] gerundive:

If you were the most selfish dick on the planet you'd get your kids to do your DNM ordering for you, and let them take the risk.


[1 Points] smegmadogmatagram:

I'm a dad to a kick ass 5 y/o girl. My usage is identical to yours, but I don't touch those powders while my kids around. Glad that DNMs exist so I can have access with (IMO) less risk than "street" dealers.


[0 Points] CptnBlackBeard:

Well I believe most dnm'ers are truely nice people, I mean "thugs" dont know any shit about how to use a computer right?


[-1 Points] None:

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[-1 Points] IamSeth:

If you feel bad about a thing, you shouldn't be doing it.

Be the arbiter of your own morality- this is not a question to put before a democracy.


[-2 Points] deafturtlemonkey:

im 16


[-3 Points] spinkleydurb:

Jesus fucking christ, have we learned nothing from the past year of Snowden leaks?

DON'T POST INFORMATION THAT CAN HELP ASSOCIATE YOUR ONLINE IDENTITY WITH YOUR REAL LIFE.