Between a rock and hard place... Would you choose what I chose?

So I made an order and out of an attempt to make some money that I really need right now. I had my shit delivered to a multi-year-sober non-drug-using friend's house. This guy has been my shipping post for a while now. The package arrives, but this (formerly)sober-friend of mine has a full blown fucking relapse out of nowhere and does ALL of the package that I had ordered. Worth ~1.8BTC.... The dude is now in a rehab center and I'm watching his place. I simply NEED the money for more drugs or need the drugs so I can flip it and pay for a fucking court fee (or they'll revoke my plea deal)...

So here's the deal; the funds are still in escrow. I am planning on saying the order did not arrive. I AM NOT IN ANY WAY a fucking thief and I hate thieves and I fucking HATE this situation. I know he's gotta make his money and deserves that much and I will send this vendor the coin (and then some) as soon as I sell it which will be very quickly.

What would you do and am I a piece of shit? How much extra money should I send this vendor?

EDIT: So man I read these comments.... And y'all are right. I couldn't do it. I just fucking sent the dude the money. Parts of this were lies to cover only the order and a few more to try to elicit the response I wanted to hear, but this vendor has nothing to do with my shit and I could be fucking him in a place worse than I am.... but this motherfucker truly did just do all of the drugs and we were clear of the terms I'd pay him cash and he'd been around drugs quite a lot and stayed away from them.. I guess he couldn't handle that temptation.

** You guys are all correct and I feel ashamed for even considering this. I don't know what I'm gonna do, but this dude "durgsrbad" down there with first post made me see I'm not being a man. I'm sorry to have shamed myself like this and I hope you people know that you've had an affect on me. Sorry for wasting your time with this personal dilemma. **


Comments


[25 Points] durgsrbad:

A story of a man completely unwilling to accept the consequences of his actions.

Gets busted - fuck that.

Delivers to friend - fuck him.

He snorts it - what a cunt.

He's in rehab - cunt got nothing left to steal.

Rip off vendor - fuck yes.

Because times are hard, and everybody but me should pay.

I get things are tough, but it looks like you've nothing left to throw under the bus. Aye, I can be blunt, but you're a cunt. Man up and face your music, or spend your days dancing to the beat of someone else's death march. Being responsible is the mark of a man, and if that's true, you're not even an itch in your dad's underwear.


[12 Points] BenderIsGrape:

Dont dispute. It wasnt the vendors fault nor the post office. This whole situation was on you dude.

Clean or not, never trust an addict. Trust me, i would know!


[12 Points] None:

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[5 Points] mindfulmu:

Be upfront with the district attorney, make an appointment dress to impress and tell them the fucking truth.
"Listen I'm broke as fuck, like I'm one paycheck from blowing dudes in the ihop bathroom. I don't want to clog the system I want to pay my debt and make something of myself. So what can we do or do I need to work on my prison rimjob skills?"


[5 Points] shitterplug:

Go to fucking labor-ready if you need cash that bad. This is your fuck up, no one else needs to pay for your stupidity. You relapsed a dude, does no one see how fucked up this is?


[6 Points] friendofstranger:

Just go to court, and tell them the guy STOLE your drugs that you were going to resell, so you can't pay the fee.

You're not in possession so you can't get in trouble. Thats a fact, I read it on the internet.

On a serious note, I would contact the vendor and try and work something out. You claiming it didn't arrive might just piss him off. If you're honest upfront, maybe you can work something out. Maybe he can reship a second package on spot, and you pay it back. And hope he doesn't see this post and find out you were planning on lying to him.

edit: this post was made while I still believed the original story, and before I found out what a scumbag OP is


[3 Points] None:

get someone in real life to front you something and you can pay them back when you've sold it

but I can see that snowballing out of control rapidly after reading your post


[3 Points] givesgoodadvice420:

just kill yourself you worthless nigger


[1 Points] friendofstranger:

Wow you're actually putting this on the vendor? That's low man. Someone should post this thread to admins of every major market, so when they see the dispute, they will know you're a scammer


[-1 Points] None:

Can you take stuff from the guy's house since you're watching it and pawn it? Like TVs, computers, etc?