So i have thought that my girl might be taking my stash or lets just say taking things that she should not be. Now this girl is the def of a mooch. I have been dating her for a few months and she, just as myself are fond of drugs. The only difference is that I can support my habbit and she cant. so over the course of the few months some things have come up "lost" i dont want to believe she would steal from me because how much i help her so im not sure if i am just turning the blind eye. SO today i set up my camera and left. sure enough right before i got back (you can hear my car door shut) she pops up and looks over my shit. however she did not look in the container that she knows i keep m shit in. so my first thought with that is that she was just looking for something legit, but as soon as my car door shuts she jumps up and runs into the bathroom. and honestly she is always going to the bathroom but there is nothing in there when she comes out cause i have searched thinking maybe she was getting down in there with something she took from me. I know it is a bit paranoid but My gut tells me something is up. thats why i left the cam going. but i dont have proof and am afraid it will be hard to approach with out it. I said nothing to her after i looked it over. I asked what she had been up to and she lied about being up at all.. said she had been asleep then woke up and went to the bathroom and thats when i came in. I might also add that you can hear her moving around out of frame doing god knows what. i think i am off to buy a small camera so i can get to the bottom of it because if i can prove that she is stealing from me then it could make my next paragraph obsolete.
I pretty much give her what ever she wants to get high with and let her pay me when ever she is able to have money. now she doesnt have a job. she has a guy that sends her money every now and again and she never sees him. I dont know why but he sends her cash like its going out of style. well what has happened is that she gets money from him and it goes strait to me to pay off the fraction of debt that it can created by what i described. Leaving her fucked for everything else that she would need. Making it to where i have to pay for every thing. I like the girl but i feel like i have been slowly manipulated into this fucked up relationship of me supplying her with shit and paying her way in life. She never contributes to anything. I have told her a few times that i cant do this that i cant support her. I am supporting my sick family as it is how am i to take on another person to look after? I will add more to this as i think of it but i have no where to turn and no where to go with this.
Really hoping to get some advise out of this post. never thought till today to ask my fellow redditors for input.
I only know of two reasons a man would send a woman who is not a relative money. And you didn't mention any kids so that scratches one reason off.