Why isn't there a dnm for escorts?

I'd imagine escrow paired with a reputation system and maximum possible anonymity would make it an ideal business model.


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[26 Points] Pelican_Vendor:

Probably because we do terrible things to them. You do not want to know how many escorts know to run when they see the big Pelican at the meetup location.


[9 Points] EastOaklandCase_Boys:

Lol, I like the flair.


[9 Points] redditulousfun:

kind of like backpage.com or tugmaps?


[4 Points] Theeconomist1:

There are sites that do this, albeit on the clearnet. Reputation based, escorts are reviewed, cataloged, as are clients, or as I call them, "Johns". The reason these sites can probably exist in the clearnet is that they don't act as a broker - if they did that (as in held escrow), obviously they become part of a criminal conspiracy, probably get a charge of being a pimp (literally), and it would absolutely necessitate being on the darknet in that case.

I seriously doubt the average backpage or craigslist girl is going to be sophisticated enough to deal with TOR, bitcoin, etc. I mean, that's why they are backpage or craigslist girls. The higher end ones, that's the only one you'd have a shot at. But I don't see any girl being comfortable with money being held in escrow. Right now, guys are horny and willing to pay upfront. Becaues of locality, the transfer of funds is not an issue (like it is with us buying drugs from vendors across the country). So BTC, doesn't lubricate that part of the deal.

The anonymity part is questionable. Anything other than a backpage girl does screening. You have to give up your identity. So I guess the question would be, who would you be hiding your identity from? The site? Well, the site doesn't have anything on you as they have no clue if a transaction actually occurred since business is down extracurricular the site.

Its an interesting idea, I don't know if it'd get the traction needed to erect itself into a full fledged part of the industry.


[5 Points] tmpescortfucker:

first off, most of these girls are stupid as fuck. Have you seen their ads on backpage and other sites? One bitch thought that some of the scenes from A Thousand Ways to Die was actual footage. Yea, she wasn't bright enough to figure that out, but she was very good in sucking dick.

As far as BTC goes, I've seen a few girls accept it only to stop. They want something tangible so they know it's there. I've had girls who fuck and then I pay them and some who don't fuck at all unless you pay. I once showed a girl my cash because she was hesitant to fuck and I said I'll leave with this money and she changed her mind.

That's another thing, if you put money in escrow then it's your word against theirs. I've had girls who sucked dick with no condom, fucked with rubber, and no longer suck dick cause she didn't like the smell of the condom. If that was in escrow I could say she didn't satisfy me because she advertised bbbj and only did it once. There are a lot of variables when it comes to sex so escrow would not be good for it. And remember how I said some of these bitches are stupid as fuck? Well, do you really think that they would understand that the value flucuates by the second? So if I gave her $200, it might be $197.27 after the session and send her pimp after me.

Plus, who the fuck would you trust to be the escrow?

In this hobby, cash is king, and if you want you can talk some of them into doing amazon giftcards, but they always check before fucking. I do that with my regulars because of the trust built up.

if you want a free system of hooker ratings go check out eccie. It's free and if you post a review you get access to the backdoor part of the reviews.You can pay too, but if you'er paying might as well do P411 (they accept BTC).


[5 Points] agreementterms:

pls send me a bitch in the mail ill pay top dollar.


[3 Points] spaceykayce:

I tried. Bitches dont like being vac sealed and put in a mbb.


[1 Points] None:

And what OP? Escrow for escorts?


[1 Points] superduperburneracct:

how could you maintain "maximum possible anonymity" if the very idea of prostitution relies on two bodies physically meeting?


[1 Points] mindfulmu:

Well, i had an idea for an app. But my only logistical concern at the moment is the police using a stingray to scoop up the ladies.


[1 Points] brightblack666:

It's called Humaniplex.com and it's on the good ol' fashioned internet.


[1 Points] None:

I first thought this was kind of a dumb idea...but when I thought about it, maybe there's some sense to it. just a little.

obviously, you'd need a way to filter by location. maybe limit it to major cities or something. descriptions would probably have to be pretty generic (like blond, brunette, etc). maybe specified by like, BJ, anal, whatever the fuck. I dunno. once you find a listing you want, you buy it.

upon buying, the vendor gives you a date/time and the location of a popular nightclub or casino or something. a place where there'd be lots of people, both male and female, and there's the omnipresent chance of getting laid. you tell the vendor what you'll be wearing. he tells you the chick will be brunette in a red dress. a vague description would be enough.

the pimps/muscle as well as the girls would already be there upon your arrival. you go to the bar, have a few drinks. a couple minutes later, some chick appears and starts flirting with you. no discussion of prices occurs, or anything relating to the transaction. she's just a chick that's flirting with you cause she likes you. this continues for a bit. eventually you leave, go fuck her somewhere (hotel maybe? I dunno), and thats that. obviously the girl's pimp would follow behind you quietly.

the whole thing is stringent on what's actually occuring never being explicitly stated by either party. the sole difference between a chick who sleeps around and a prostitute is the exchange of money. even if the client was an undercover cop, since no money was physically exchanged, it'd be very difficult to prove the real reason the chick fucked you. being a barslut isn't illegal.

perhaps there could be some kind of timed-escrow implemented. say like, your appointment is at 7 PM. then, unless you log in to the market and cancel the transaction, the escrow auto-releases at 8 PM.

there'd be fairly high overhead, so the prices would have to be pretty high. probably like in the hundreds, even thousands per transaction. in this busienss, reputation would be everything, so in order to prevent shill accounts, maybe charge something equivalent to a vendor fee for all buyers.


[1 Points] coffeencreme:

I don't know what the going rate for escorts is, but I would imagine part of the problem is that the $300 you pay them could be worth $200 by the time the appointment is over.


[1 Points] bobbiggs69:

Because independent escorts wouldn't know how to get on it. They do it on the clearnet. Have you ever heard of The Erotic Review or TNA forums?


[1 Points] rabbit_hole_diver:

i prefer to pick mine up at truck stops or the local jack-in-the-box. after we're done i throw them out of the van at 60mph.


[1 Points] Vendor_BBMC:

Why isn't there a dnm for escorts?

Because they only accept cash, work locally rather than internationally, Won't accept a booking until they've sussed you out over the phone, and are generally not very good with computers.


[1 Points] slutwhore568:

I'm an occasional escort, and I've thought about trying to use BTC. It doesn't seem worth it, mostly because chances are the guy won't know how to use bitcoin. Besides that, I'd have to worry about cashing it out (unless I spend it directly), which just isn't something I want to do. Basically, you're meeting in person anyway, why not just pay cash? Otherwise you gotta spend some time/effort on both ends procuring BTC and then cashing it out.

Everyone's saying girls like guys can't be escorts ;)


[0 Points] None:

DNMs keep sellers anonymous, we are also very global, no real outreach for within 50 miles, both of these problems are why


[0 Points] None:

www.backpage.com prick. Remember though, condoms don't protect against skin transmitted diseases such as genital warts or herpes.


[-1 Points] CDRCRDS:

Why do you losers pay for sex? Its so sad.