I have no problem giving the miner more money, but the only way you can increase the trans fee is from the blockchain online wallet itself. So I would have to send from coinbase/circle, to the online blockchain wallet with regular miners fee which would take forever. Then send to electrum with a high miners fee? Isn't there some way to keep the miners fee up no matter where you send from?
Online if the wallet used gives you the options, however Coinbase and Circle use the default fee, which should be enough tbh