Need some advice. Don't know what to do...

(19 years old) 2 years ago I lost all my money to silkroad and mtgox. Than after a 2 month break managed to get some money and ordered weed to my house and my parents found it and called the cops. Cops went to my house and found similar packaging and charged me. Parents got a me a lawyer (3,000) and got probation. Was pist at them but think they did the right thing even tho it fucked me over. -Just recently I got in legal trouble and my parents helped me out bailed me out got me a lawyer($5,000) and just yesterday I had court and all thone charges got dropped. And ordered a hp and oz of oil and got it yesterday sold half and came home last night and put the black bag in my front lawn and my parents found it my neighbor convinced them to not call the cops and my friend came and picked that up. Idk what to do now was working with my father but he said he doesn't want me to go work with him anymore. I really am trying to do the right thing but idk anymore. Was think about just taking a break for my parents since they are pist af and idk caused them so many troubles I'm the past years and thinking and bout getting a apartment and pushing weed for the time being. Since I don't have a job right now. And yes I know I'm the shittiest kid a parent can have. If any one can give me any advise thanks.


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[8 Points] mxeforme:

Don't order drugs to your parents' house. Just don't do it. You're 19 and an adult now, you need to start acting like one. If you plan to keep ordering things (doesn't sound like you should be doing that considering your lack of success) do what samwhiskey said and move out. Consider yourself lucky that you haven't really had to face any consequences for your mistakes and learn from them.


[5 Points] Gold_Seal:

You're not a shit kid. You're parents are cruel horrible sadistic wankers tho. Nobody in the their right mind calls the cops on their son for a bag of weed. Its good that they paid your lawyer fees and so they should.

Move the fuck out, tell your parents you think its best if you go your seperate ways.

I'd advise against pushing weed. No offense but you're not too smart man. You'll get caught and go to prison. Your life will be over.


[6 Points] DaMenehune:

Get out of the game. You are too soft.


[4 Points] Theeconomist1:

Look, you aren't the shittiest kid ever. But you are acting immature and its time to grow up. Bottom line, you still live at home and its their rules. In addition, don't put them at legal risk ordering to their house. You can create a lot of problems for them. I'm assuming you live in the US, but drug laws are not kind - especially the economic ones. LE likes taking people's property and drugs, esp distribution or sales, can let them do so.

You may not like it but its time to stop dealing/ordering for a while. You have other skills. Flipping weed isn't the only thing you know how to do. At worst, you can find a job that requires no real skills until you can figure out what you want to do. A legit job is hard work. Its often boring and shitty. It won't be as easy as flipping weed. But it is what it is. Work fast food, work doing manual labor, you can find something. Save up for a place and move out. But try to keep a good relationship with your family. Unless they are fucked up evil, they are the only ones who will stick with you and it sounds like they do care about you.

Good luck to you. If your family is kind to you (even if they do shit you may not agreee with), they are worth keeping around. Follow the straight and narrow for a while, get your bearings, and figure out what it is you want to do with your life. Life is about taking what you want. Think big. Work towards whatever it is you find you want out of life.


[2 Points] druggedupnigga:

move out. stop ordering weed to parents house. dont fuck with drugs for a bit. get back in good graces by staying clean may be?


[2 Points] None:

Ur parents sounds like they rlly love u mine kicked me out on my ass u shud be so lucky id quit go to school work why sell when u can make money legitmatley then buy ur personal drugs not in ur parents house disrespectful


[2 Points] totallyrekt:

Dude, your 19, gtfo of your parents house and start experiencing life.


[2 Points] nksnoss:

Jesus, you're a lost cause.


[1 Points] samwhiskey:

Move out


[1 Points] Gold_Seal:

Is this a nomral thing for American parents to do to their children or something?! WTF.


[1 Points] 1312-:

Don´t panic buddy :-) When i was 16 a had an indoor-grow (8 plants) hidden in the bunker of our house. In the house lived 5 more familys. When i was on vacation (getting stuff from next country), my mum found the plant and called the cops. I came home, and had to explain it. Mum had to pay the 2000bucks penalty, because i was minor xD She fucked up herself xD To come to the point: After few weeks everything was normal between us ... My advice: Stand your ground and take it, don´t run away. This could ruin your relationship badly, and you got bustet 2 times already, next time won´t be that easy... Good luck, Fella