Doesnt help that he only answers messages every 3 days either. Had him in a conversation about it and then just seemed to lose him. ive also heard other people had to wait this long too. Is there any reason why a Us domestic package would ever take this long??
HF can be pretty bad about shipping, but he's also been around long enough that I also don't think he is scamming. How much weight is involved here? If it's not bulk then he almost certainly isn't scamming...probably just behind on orders and marked yours as shipped without actually shipping it. It sucks, but keep pestering him.
Just remember you aren't the first to complain about bad shipping times with HF and you won't be the last.