So I've been posting about this situation over the past couple of weeks and have gotten some really helpful insight from you guys. But now I have just given up hope. An order that was supposed to get here in 2-3 days still isn't here after 3 weeks. I think I got scammed. But anyway, I opened up a dispute. Since then I messaged the vendor and he said it would be here soon. This was a week ago and still no package. I told him I was sick of waiting and I just wanted a refund so I wouldn't have to leave negative feedback (a lot more polite than this). But since then he hasn't messaged me back and I have also messaged the moderator of the dispute twice to tell him my side of the story. I wasn't sure if I was even supposed to do that, but regardless, he hasn't messaged me back either.
I just don't know what to do anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
What else can you do? Nothing. Open a dispute and wait and see what happens. If you didn't get anything in the mail they shouldn't be able to provide a tracking number that says delivered.