How much do you let your intimate partners know about what you do? Do you share the drugs and pretend you buy them on the street? Hint that you are a dealer? Keep everything above board? Give them MDMA and make sweet sweet love? What do you degenerates do?
Tell them nothing. There have been 3-4 vendors that ive heard have gotten caught up because they told their "SO" (at the time) and then later broke up and got snitched on. If you are vending you shouldn't be involved in any irl dealing either