My vendor is trusted but requires FE, and I just placed an order. When I try to confirm finalization, it says the order cannot be found even though it says "open, pending" under the status. My bitcoins were removed from my wallet so I'm starting to get worried something went wrong, anyone have any ideas?
That happens literally every time you order. The money comes out of your wallet, goes to escrow, and stays there until finalize. The reason you can't is just because the vendor hasn't confirmed your order. When they do then the status will change from pending to confirmed and you'll be then given the option to finalize. Don't worry and wait for your vendor to confirm.