Ive never done an airbnb, is there some way you can secure one without the owner ever meeting you or leaving paper trails? I figure this would be safer than dead addresses since thats suspicious and could get package RTS, cant use occupied addresses since theyd swipe it, PO boxes under fake id is trading one crime for a bigger crime, deaddrops require dealer to be local. At least with an airbnb i could rig the place with some IP cameras to see if the package was hot in advance. Just throwing ideas out there chime in.
What's your plan if the package is delayed past your stay?